Types of children placed for adoption:
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Amy, 4 years old.
In the first three years of her young life Amy experienced significant neglect and ill-treatment. Understandably, she became withdrawn and distressed. Amy is beginning to blossom into a fun-filled, confident, sociable child. While Amy is developing normally, she remains apprehensive about her future.
Amy is the eldest of three children. Her two younger siblings have been placed separately for adoption. This has been a major loss to Amy. Amy’s new family have assured Amy that they will stay in contact with her adopted brother and sister by meeting with them and their adoptive parents twice a year.
If you want to learn more about other children waiting for adoption, we would be pleased to hear from you. For further information please contact us on
029 2066 700, or e-mail: info@stdavidscs.org
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Mollie (aged 3), had some initial developmental delay.
Mollie needed a lot of help and encouragement to meet her milestones. One year after placement, she is talking, walking, eating well, generally thriving and enjoying nursery.
She has a special place in her new family who understand that some aspects of her future development remains uncertain. For the first time in her young life Mollie is beginning to catch up with her peers.
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Thomas aged 7, who has joined his new mummy after having lived with 3 different families.
Two weeks after moving in, he was busy running around the house shouting, "I can't believe it, I can't believe it!"
It is still early days in the placement.
Thomas still gets worried about changes and seeks out reassurances from
Mum that he is there to stay. His future is secure.
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Ellie and Nora, aged 6 and 4, needed a family where they could still see their birth mother and a younger sibling, twice a year.
Their adoptive mum and dad were initially apprehensive about this contact, however they have supported the children in this and have been amazed at how beneficial it has been for them.
Ellie and Nora have already adapted to their new lifestyle.
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Children for whom we are currently recruiting adoptive people:
Very few healthy children under three years of age are referred to St. David’s to be placed for adoption.
Understandably, many families initially considering adoption express an interest in adopting a healthy infant. While infants are still placed for adoption, the demand for such very young children is particularly high. Many adoptive applicants wishing to adopt a healthy child under three years of age usually find themselves subject to lengthy waiting lists or may not be offered a service. A child of 4, 5, or 6 years of age is still a very young child with many infancy needs that have yet to be met. Please consider adopting a child like, Amy, Mollie, or Thomas.
St David's Children Society is actively recruiting adopters for are:
Adopters for single children over three years of age.
Adopters for children who are part of a sibling group of sisters or brothers who need to stay together.
We particularly welcome applications from adopters who are willing to adopt:
Children who are over five years of age.
Older sibling groups of children.
Children with disabilities.
Children from ethnic minority communities. |
Who can adopt?
The Society positively welcomes applications from: -
- Married couples
- Single people
- Unmarried heterosexual couples
- Individuals and families with or without children
- Families whose children are grown up
- Disabled people
- People of all racial backgrounds
- People of all or no religious faith
- Employed or unemployed
- Homeowners or tenants with an assured tenancy
You must be:
- Over 21 years of age
- Able to show that you can provide a stable, loving home for a child
- Able to meet a child's racial, cultural and religious needs
Typical adoptive placements:
David and Monica are a Welsh couple in their mid forties. Three years ago they adopted Gareth & Jake, (4 and 3 years of age). Both children had been neglected and ill-treated by their birth family. Gareth & Jake had been in four different foster homes. The constant changes left them feeling insecure and unsure about trusting adults. For the first year of placement the children found it difficult to believe David & Monica's assurances that this was their 'forever home.' Each night they would check to make sure that their bags had not been packed for another move and that four places had been laid for the following morning's breakfast. After two years of patience and love, the boys are no longer fearful and have settled down. They have made new friends and learned how to laugh.
Helen, (37 years of age), is a single woman who always wanted to be a parent but never found the right partner. Two years ago Helen adopted 7 year old Sophie. Sophie suffered from physical and sexual abuse and was prone to uncontrollable sobbing. Helen's patience, understanding and care has helped Sophie feel secure and loved for herself. Last year Sophie's birth sister Ellen (age 3) became available for adoption. Ellen was taken into care at a much younger age primarily because of the neglect experienced by Sophie. Helen enjoyed being a parent so much that she decided to adopt Ellen. Sophie and Ellen are blossoming in their adoptive home.
Lynn & Martin (47 & 51 years of age) adopted Tom, 8 years old. Tom was considered a 'hard to place' child simply because he had spent all of his life in either a residential home or foster care. Because of his lack of attachment and understandable anger, Tom was considered to be un-adoptable. With the commitment of Lynn & Martin, Tom has managed to reclaim his childhood, happiness and confidence. In speaking about his feelings Tom said, "I feel alive." While it has not been easy for Lynn & Martin, they have found the experience of parenting Tom richly rewarding and 'wouldn't be without him now.'
Sonia & Oscar are a young African-Caribbean couple who plan to get married next year. Sonia has health considerations, which mean that she will never be able to achieve pregnancy. Both were very keen to become parents and naturally considered adoption. Because of the shortage of adoptive parents for children of African-Caribbean origin, the Society was able to place a nine month old African-Caribbean baby with them. The couple were overjoyed. The family have already advised the Society that within the next two years they would like to reapply to adopt another child.
Sue & Dave already had two children, both sons 8 & 10 years of age. The couple felt that they had the emotional and physical space in their home to adopt a child. We discussed the possible placement of Julie (age 4 years) with the family. Julie needed to maintain contact with her two sisters who are in another adoptive placement. Sue, Dave & their sons carefully considered this and agreed to proceed. The whole adoptive family meets with Julie's sisters twice per year. Sue & Dave's kindness and consistency have helped Julie settle. They all value the benefits of keeping the link with Julie's adopted siblings open.
For more information on the adoption process click here
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"The children featured are representative of those placed for adoption." |
